Did Remington Steele do us a disservice? The bias against women

Smith CoronaI was a huge Remington Steele fan back in the day. It was the one show I had to watch each week.

I loved the premise: a woman trying to make it as a private detective figures out that she’ll be more successful if she creates an imaginary boss–a decidedly masculine boss. She cobbles the name together out of things in her office and Remington Steele is born. In many ways, it’s a sheer stroke of genius. Young, pretty, and female, Laura Holt probably didn’t inspire confidence in the sort of people who needed an private investigator. By creating an imaginary boss, she could present herself as his representative, could defer unpleasant decisions until she could speak with the boss; she could even make the boss the bad guy if the situation warranted it. It was a great plan, right until the time a con artist walks into her life and takes Steele’s identity. Laura is in the uncomfortable situation of not being able to out him without outing herself as well–and the con man needs a place to cool his heels. As premises for romantic dramedies go, this one was more clever than most.

I wanted to be Laura Holt. I admired her gumption, her classic sense of style. I wanted her shoes. I had a crush on Remington Steele. I loved Brosnan’s accent, I loved the banter between the characters. In fact, I think it was this show that made me fall in love with banter. It was like watching Nick and Nora from The Thin Man movies, which was appropriate, given Steele’s ability to find similarities in each case to old movies that he loved to watch.

I enjoyed the show so much that I was delighted to run across it recently on DVD. But watching it again proved to be a big mistake. With hindsight, I remembered that Brosnan wanted out of his contract to play Bond (though really, he was far too young at the time–his is the attractiveness that gets better with age) and was upset when they wouldn’t let him go. Despite being good actors, this situation strained the working relationship between Stephanie Zimbalist and Pierce Brosnan, and it clearly shows in their romantic scenes together, at least to my more mature eyes. The banter feels more like bicker, and the plots, meant to reflect some of the screwball comedies of the 30’s and 40’s, seem dated and cheesy now.

And then there’s the premise itself. Laura Holt can’t be taken seriously in a man’s profession without pretending to have a male boss. Despite having trained and apprenticed for her career (as she said in the opening narrative each week), it was usually Steele who solved the case, by recalling an old movie with a similar set up. So not only does Steele move in lock, stock and barrel into the identity she created, he’s better at solving crimes than she is, too.

handwriting_flickrI’ve been thinking a lot about this kind of thing lately. Recently I came across a NYT post by Fay Weldon, titled “Writer of a Certain Age.” She spoke of her long experience in television and the theater, as well as that of a writer. It was an extremely well-written and eye-opening essay.

It was also bloody depressing. In it, Weldon spoke of truisms in the various entertainment industries in which she’s worked–and in nearly all cases, the only time a women was considered important and worth listening to–be it in television, theater, or novels–is when she is young, pretty, and the love interest for a male lead.

Worse, Weldon seems to imply in her post that if you are so unfortunate as to be ‘a writer of a certain age’ and female, that you should really take advantage of the internet to lie to your fans and create a false persona like Remington Steele. Take a gender neutral pen name. Or if you acknowledge that you are, in fact, a woman, take this opportunity to pretend to be younger, thinner, prettier than you really are. Ouch.

ink pen_wikipedia_orgDiscussion of this post among my friends lead to whether or not bias still existed against women writers in this day and age. I found a blog post titled Why James Chartrand Wears Women’s Underpants, which seemed to parallel Laura Holt’s dilemma: she couldn’t be taken seriously as a woman. It wasn’t until she took the pen name James Chartrand that her freelance writing business took off–and she was able to pay off her mortgage. The discussion among my friends turned inevitably to gender neutral pen names. In the thriller/mystery genre, a gender neutral pen name is almost mandatory–just look at J.D. Robb versus Nora Roberts. I argued that this was more about branding, about allowing your audience to know by your pen name what kind of story to expect. However, J. K. Rowling was born because her publisher thought a female name wouldn’t appeal to the primary audience for the Harry Potter series: adolescent boys.

The Boys of Summer400x600Then there is my own genre. I write primarily M/M romances. At the time I sold my first story and was selecting a pen name, there was a big brouhaha about an author who’d been discovered to be female instead of male. The anger readers felt, presumably for being deceived, was so great that I deliberately chose a feminine pen name because I didn’t want there to be any ambiguity about my gender.

Frequently, the question of whether or not women should even be writing books about gay men and their sexual adventures is raised within the genre. Time and again, the same arguments come back: Tolkien never met a hobbit. Mystery writers usually aren’t murders themselves. Rowling never went to Hogwarts (I KNOW. Say it isn’t so!!) and to my knowledge, all science fiction is just that. Fiction. And yet I never seem to hear a single person take a male author to task for creating a female protagonist. This particular complaint about women writers seems to get raised every few months among my various lists and groups, too.

You will hear people say as long as the story is written well, they don’t give a hoot about the gender of the author, and since I feel that way myself, I believe people when they say this. But I have to wonder, especially in light of Weldon’s post. Of her encouragement to be anything other than what I actually am. Believe me, that post made me wonder if I’d made a serious mistake by going with a feminine pen name, and whether I should delete all my previous posts on aging and sexuality. Whether I should be someone other than who I really am. Because writing isn’t just a little hobby for me. I need it to help pay the bills.

I pretty much thought these arguments were limited to my genre (with the possible exception of the mystery genre as well). Lord knows, romance writers in general are considered the lowest of the low when it comes to ‘real’ writing. Turns out sci-fi and mystery writers also come pretty low on the ‘respect’ list, compared to the literary giants of the fiction world, which is sad because on any given day I’ll take a good mystery or sci-fi story over any self-indulgent, introspective Grand Literature novel. But I digress.

One of my friends pointed out this article to me on Literary Sexism: Still Pervasive and Real. It bears reading. While the beginning is about a critical review and the author’s response to it (which may not make a ton of sense if you aren’t familiar with Mary Gaitskill‘s essays and fiction), read it all the way through. There are some links to some searing examples of ongoing bias toward women. It’s enlightening as well as disheartening. If you don’t believe me, just take a look at the pie chart graphs of the number of books reviewed by male versus female authors.

http://www.dreamstime.com/-image11166602I can’t change who Sarah Madison is now unless I want to start all over again building a platform and readership from scratch, but I can certainly give more thought to creating my new persona for my projected traditional romances. Ironically, Sarah Madison would be a good fit for that genre, better perhaps, that for writing about hot men in hot water. The jury is still out as to whether or not I will actually take another pen name to write traditional M/F romances. The polling has run about 50/50 either way. I myself think, like Nora Roberts, it will be easier for those readers who don’t care for gay romances to find what they like to read if I keep the names separate.

This is certainly not meant to be a ‘wah-wah, woe is me, I’m a woman and the world is out to get me’ post either. It’s just that it seems to me that we should have come farther than Remington Steele by now. I’d like to point to one of my favorite television heroines, Kate Beckett from Castle and say we have come a long way, baby. But then I recall how much Stana Katic’s appearance has changed over the six seasons of Castle and how little she resembles a NYPD homicide detective anymore and how much she looks like a fashion model instead. And Castle usually solves the crime, too.

So it is tempting here to say that Remington Steele was a bad, wrong message to send to impressionable young women. But that would be wrong. I recall not all that long ago getting very angry over some young person’s lambasting of Star Trek: The Original Series on Twitter–commenting on how sexist, nationalist, racist, etc the show was. I tried to point out that for its time, it was groundbreaking stuff. That yes, the women wore mini-skirts and go-go boots, but it was the first show that depicted a black woman in a role other than that of a maid or a cook. That it tackled big issues. That it envisioned a future in which we’d solved so many of our problems by working together instead of trying to kill each other. The Twitter Hater wouldn’t listen and I had to drop her from my feed. She couldn’t understand that it took those very baby steps taken in Star Trek to bring us forward to the kinds of diversity and equality we see in roles for characters today.

I have to give that same kind of credit to Remington Steele. It was groundbreaking in its way as well, giving us a strong unmarried female heroine who had an interesting career and did exciting things. Laura Holt was smart and independent and I wanted to be her. She was one of the first characters I can recall to influence me that way. That’s exactly the sort of baby step that was needed back then. Today we have Kate Beckett, and Brenda Leigh Johnson (The Closer), and Rizzoli and Isles, and Captain Sharon Raydor (Major Crimes), and Peggy Carter (Captain America) and I could go on. It’s getting better. We’re seeing better roles for women, more older women in good roles. But the numbers are still pretty small compared to the good parts for men.

The fact that men got all the best parts and best lines was one of the reasons I’ve been drawn to male characters my entire life. I very much want to try my hand at writing a female character I can like and respect. The thought terrifies me, to be honest, which is why I haven’t seriously attempted it so far. But I will. Some day I will. And I have Laura Holt to thank for it.

 

 

8 thoughts on “Did Remington Steele do us a disservice? The bias against women

  1. I loved Remington Steele, too. I liked that it was a show about a woman when so many shows were about men. The show was created by men, written by men, but produced by Mary Tyler Moore’s production company — notable because MTM was my sister’s role model.

    If I had a daughter, I would want Sam Carter to be her role mode. (As far as fictional characters go, that is). Amanda Tapping made that character smart, tough, courageous and nobody treated her like a frail flower. Somewhere I read that she nearly quit the series over an unrealistic wardrobe and stood her ground until they agreed she could dress like a woman in the military dressed, not like the Hollywood version of a woman in the military.

    It’s late on a Saturday and I’m probably rambling. Thank you for writing this thoughtful column. I always enjoy reading your perspective on writing, women, and publishing.

    • Thank you! A few years back I read a book called Reading Stargate SG-1. I don’t know what I was expecting when I bought it, but it turned out to be a series of scholarly papers and discussions on such wide-ranging topics as fan loyalty, ‘textual poaching’ (aka fandom created works), the characters, the cinematic techniques used in the show, and so on.

      At times it made for a little dry reading, but some of the papers were fascinating. My favorite was “Way Smarter than You Are: Sam Carter, Human Being.” In fact, many of the articles were devoted to Sam and the impact of the character–the things that made Sam Carter more than just a great character but made her *iconic*.

      I think a lot of that has to do with Amanda Tapping as a person and an actress. Apparently, the showrunners wanted to try and dress her in the type of costumes they eventually gave to Teyla. Amanda Tapping says she refused to leave the dressing room, stating (and rightly so) that the costume choices were completely inappropriate for her character. According to what I read, Amanda Tapping said she was crying in the dressing room, shaking in her shoes,certain she’d blown the big role she’d just landed, but the management gave in and dressed her appropriately for a female member of the military.

      THAT, in my opinion, is real courage. πŸ™‚ Her decision helped shape what Sam Carter became: just another one of the ‘Team’, who just happened to be smarter than everyone else on the planet. I think, too, if Carter had come across with McKay’s arrogance, the character would have been vilified as another ‘uppity bitch’ but instead, Tapping played Carter with a kind of curious wonder, a delighted fascination with almost every anomaly encountered. The character truly *is* iconic. For the first time, we have a female role model that simply is what she is–and is *accepted* for that. I don’t really think the writers of the show deliberately set out to create such a wonderful character though. I think that it was one of those organic events where concept and execution come together to forge something greater than either of its parts. πŸ™‚
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  2. Just survived a hellish 2 weeks, so, my thoughts are very scattered, and I want to come back to this, but probably won’t.

    THIS re: Sam Carter. Fandom can villify her all they want, but Amanda Tapping really did blaze a trail in SciFi television, just by putting herself through Hell, and standing her ground.

    • Of all the celebrities I’ve been fortunate enough to meet, Amanda Tapping is truly the most down-to-earth, compassionate, and generous person–and I think her strong fandom following is partly due to that. I think if anyone else played the part, Sam Carter would not be half the iconic character that she became. Sometimes I think showrunners forget that the actor breathes life into their characters. πŸ˜‰

      Sorry the last couple of weeks have been so rough. Hope things smooth out for you!
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  3. Interestingly enough, I will quite often NOT pick up a book when it’s by a male author. If the protag is female, but the author is male, I don’t read it. I was burned too many times in the past by female protagonists badly written by men. they just… were all stereotypes and so… ugh. I couldn’t stand it. And I don’t often read books where men are the leads, so that usually means i’m reading female authors. I tend to like romances, and books with more thinking and feeling than just action. I read a book recently and there were so many fight scenes I just started skipping through it. It doesn’t interest me. When I see initials, I’m leery because I’m hoping it’s a woman but I can’t tell!

  4. Very interesting blog post! Please don’t feel discouraged! In the m/m romance genre, writers and readers are very diverse. What works for some might not work for others. This is equally true for the author’s gender as it is for the amount of sex scenes in books. The target audience of m/m is not solely gay men, as a lot of straight women also read m/m. And even if gay men prefered books by male authors, that still leaves the high amount of female readers. Those, like myself, often prefer books written by women (use of language, plot, more “romance”, less erotica). There are wonderful male m/m authors out there, but some of the best are women. Concerning the pen name used by authors, I prefer if I can tell, whether it’s a man or a woman. It’s awkward to write reviews using the wrong pronoun for once. And if I can tell, there is no feeling of being “lied to” as some have put it in the past. And most women writing romance are above a certain age πŸ™‚ where’s the big deal? They have life experience to write from! For me it’s more about being “honest” in your author persona. If an author has to pretend to be someone he/she is not, they can never be seen in public. And a friendly picture of a “normal” person (as in not overly perfect, young, beautiful) to go along with the promo work is always a nice thing. We readers like to glimpse a little of the person/persona behind the books, it’s sheer curiosity!
    Summing up this long comment, I want to add that you’re books are wonderful and you should not worry so much. Those ever returning discussions do not necessarily represent the majority of readers. Many readers do not interact on the internet (or only read but don’t comment) but they still buy and read books. Criticism is often much louder than praise (people like to critize, don’t they), but there are still a lot of readers out there that do not share their views.

    • Thank you! I agree with almost everything you’ve said here in principle, but what I hear from other writers is a bit discouraging when it comes to the bias against women in general–not just as M/M writers or romance writers or mystery writers (see how the list keeps growing?).

      Those ever returning discussions do not necessarily represent the majority of readers. Many readers do not interact on the internet (or only read but don’t comment) but they still buy and read books. Criticism is often much louder than praise (people like to criticize, don’t they), but there are still a lot of readers out there that do not share their views

      This is true as well, but sadly Amazon chooses how to display your titles and to whom based on reviews–which can directly affect sales. It’s one of the reasons reviews have become such a loaded proposition these days–and one of the reasons that if someone likes a story they should really post a review. I myself am bad about leaving reviews–I just don’t have a lot of time these days–so it often takes a really outstanding book to make me go to the website and write a review! And yet some author is counting on that, same as me. πŸ˜‰

      It’s odd when you think about it–in the past, we didn’t have such access to authors or the power to influence sales in such a manner. There are books I read and loved when growing up that it would never occur to me to go leave a review on them now. I think many people fall into this mindset, whereas Amazon is counting on the people who do interact to drive visibility upward, and as a result, sales.

      When I first started writing, it was all about the sheer joy of it, and I wanted to be very clear that I was a woman writing the kind of stories that I enjoy myself. Later, circumstances became such that I needed the income the stories brought in. I’ve been thinking a lot about my decisions when creating the Sarah Madison brand, and wonder if I’ve made some mistakes along the way. πŸ˜‰
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